Flirt Club: Heaven, Hell & Everything In Between

A queer space for flirting and friendship
Wednesday 13th May 7:30-10:30pm

Flirt Club is a queer social & dating night designed to make meeting people feel easy, natural, and actually enjoyable.

No awkward speed dating. No forced interactions. No pressure to perform.

Just a warm, welcoming space with playful prompts, light-touch games, and a room full of people who are open to connection, whatever that looks like for them.

This month, our theme is Heaven, Hell & Everything In Between.

A little bit sweet, a little bit mischievous, and everything in between.

It’s about exploring different sides of yourself — soft, bold, flirty, shy, chaotic, charming — and meeting others doing the same.

You might:

start a conversation you wouldn’t normally start
share a compliment you thought you’d be too nervous to say
meet someone new (or just enjoy being in the room)

Whether you’re open to a spark, hoping to make friends, or just want a queer space that feels good to be in — you’re welcome here.

Come solo or with others.

Come curious.

Come exactly as you are.

Welcome to Flirt Club. Flirty, friendly, fun.

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Outfit suggestions:

Each Flirt Club has a theme, and this month we’re exploring Heaven, Hell & Everything In Between.

You can lean angel, devil, or somewhere in between — it’s entirely up to you.

Think:

Angel: whites, silvers, soft fabrics, floaty fits, sheer layers, light and dreamy
Devil: blacks, reds, leather, mesh, bold silhouettes, something a little sharper or more daring
In between: mix it up, soft with structured, light with dark, sweet with a bit of edge

You could keep it subtle (just a colour, texture, or vibe), or go a bit further with details like a bold lip, statement accessories, or a playful nod to the theme.

No pressure to dress up and no expectation to dress sexy — but if you want to lean into it, you’re very welcome to. Just wear something you feel good in.

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FAQs

What is Flirt Club?

Flirt Club is a queer space for flirting, friendship, and connection. It’s part playful social, part cosy night out. Think: playful party meets cosy queer hangout, with icebreaker games, conversation prompts, and plenty of space to just chat. You join at your own pace: flirt, make friends, or just sip a drink and people-watch.

We’re proudly LGBTQ+ inclusive, ENM-friendly, sex-positive, and consent-led — but you don’t need to be any of those things (except queer 🏳️‍🌈) to come along. All you need is kindness, curiosity, and a willingness to meet new people.

Is it trans & non-binary inclusive?

Always. Flirt Club is proudly trans, non-binary, genderfluid, intersex and questioning-inclusive. This is a space where your pronouns are respected, your identity is valid, and your joy is celebrated.

Can heterosexual cis men come?

Straight men allies, we love you but to truly foster the safe queer vibes we want at Flirt Club, we ask you sit this one out. Flirt Club is a space made by and for queer people. Whether you’re questioning, trans, bi, ace, gay, pan or somewhere in-between, you’re welcome here.

Do I have to be single to come?

Not at all! Flirt Club isn’t just for people looking to date, it’s for anyone who wants to meet new queer people and feel part of a community. Come single, partnered, poly, curious, heartbroken, or “it’s complicated.” You set your own boundaries — flirt, friend, or just vibe.

Do I have to flirt? What if I just want to make friends?

You never have to flirt. Flirt Club is just as much about friendship as it is about romance or sex. You can spend the whole night making new pals, joining games, or having deep chats. Flirt if you want to, friend if you don’t.

I’m coming alone — will I feel awkward?

We get it, walking into a room alone can feel scary. The good news? Loads of people come solo, and the night is designed exactly for that. There are games, gentle prompts, “curiosity corners” and hosts to help get you chatting. You won’t be the only one flying solo, and you probably won’t leave that way!

Is this a speed dating event?

Nope — no timers, no forced small talk. This isn’t speed dating. It’s more like a playful queer social with optional icebreakers, games and cosy spaces to chat at your own pace. If a conversation gets good, you’re free to stay with it.

What should I wear?

Each event has a theme, and this month we’re exploring Heaven, Hell & Everything In Between. You can lean angel, devil, or somewhere in between — it’s entirely up to you. Think soft and light (whites, silvers, floaty fabrics), bold and dark (blacks, reds, leather, mesh), or a mix of both, sweet with a bit of edge. You can keep it subtle with colours or textures, or add something a bit more playful like a statement accessory or bold makeup. No pressure to dress up and no expectation to dress sexy — but if you want to lean into the theme, you’re very welcome to. Just wear something you feel good in.

What age range is it for?

Flirt Club is open to all adults aged 18+. Most people tend to be in their 20s, 30s and 40s, but we welcome all ages, as long as you’re respectful, open-minded and ready to connect.

I don’t drink alcohol. Is that OK?

Absolutely. There’s zero pressure to drink. The Archives has a gorgeous menu with cocktails available classic strength, one unit or alcohol free, plus non-alcoholic wines and beers and softs, so everyone’s covered.

We’ll even have a Flirt Club cocktail special (both alcoholic and alcohol free). Ordering a drink is also a lovely way to support our host venue and help keep nights like this going.

Is the venue accessible?

Flirt Club will be held in the basement of The Divine. Unfortuately, both floors of The Divine are not currently accessible as they do not have a lift.

- The ground floor, main bar of The Divine has level access.

- There is an accessible toilet in the main bar.

- The cabaret and club space are in the basement of the venue. There is no lift.

- There are 17 wide steps down to the basement with handrails on either side, this is where the show will take place.

- There are two sets of gender-neutral toilets downstairs, they are not wide enough for wheelchairs.

If you need further information, please refer to The Divine ‘About’ page on the website. www.thedivine.co.uk or email the venue direct on info@thedivine.co.uk

What if I feel uncomfortable or pressured?

Consent is the heartbeat of Flirt Club. All games and conversations are optional, and we ask everyone to get verbal consent before any physical contact, even hugs. If anyone makes you feel uncomfortable, or you just need a moment, come and speak to one of the hosts. We are here for you.